Category: Growth

The Power of Conflict: Fuel for Greatness or Sign of Dysfunction?

Great teams don't avoid conflict—they process it efficiently. The key to success isn’t eliminating conflict, but resolving it quickly and productively.

If AI Isn’t Making You Uncomfortable, You’re Not Using It Enough

The biggest AI problem right now? A lack of imagination. The chatbot era was training wheels—it’s time to take them off. If AI isn’t rewiring how you think, you’re not using it enough.

7 Game-Changing Lessons Every Junior Developer Needs to Learn

Most developers spend years learning these lessons the hard way. You don't have to. Master these principles now and take control of your dev career.

You're More Ready Than You Think: How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a New Software Engineer

Struggling with imposter syndrome as a new software engineer? Learn why you're more ready than you think, and how to build confidence through action and learning.

ChatGPT vs Human Tutors: The Future of Learning

Discover how ChatGPT is changing the landscape of education and tutoring, while understanding the unique value that human tutors bring to the learning experience.

Flipping the Switch: How to Turn On and Off Your Abilities

Discover the art of mental switching - how to activate and deactivate different aspects of your personality and skills to excel in various contexts.

Reasons vs. Excuses in Software Development: The Key to Personal Responsibility and Team Success

Dive into the world of personal responsibility and team success in software development by distinguishing between reasons and excuses. Explore the vital role of accountability, examine real-world examples, and uncover five effective strategies designed to help you and your team conquer excuses and take command of your professional journey.

Boost Your Productivity with Three Daily Habits

Discover three game-changing daily habits that can significantly boost your productivity and help you achieve more in both your professional and personal life.

Three Aspects of Product Management You Need to Master

Product managers need to be proficient in three key areas: technical skills, data analysis, and empathy for customers. Neglecting any one of these areas can lead to difficulties in successfully managing a product. However, a well-rounded product manager who excels in all three areas can drive success by delivering innovative products that meet customer needs, are technically sound, and supported by data-driven decision-making.

Balance is a Great Way to Be Mediocre

Explore why the pursuit of perfect balance might be holding you back, and learn how embracing strategic imbalance can lead to extraordinary results.

Greatness Only Competes with Itself

Learn why the path to greatness lies in competing with yourself rather than others, and how this mindset can transform your personal and professional growth.

Finding Time for Innovation

Discover practical approaches to balance daily responsibilities with innovation initiatives, ensuring your organization stays competitive and forward-thinking.

Price's Law: Understanding the Power Law Distribution of Knowledge

Discover how Price's Law explains the distribution of knowledge and productivity in organizations, and learn how to leverage this understanding for better team management.

Fulfill Your Destiny by Performing Under Pressure

Discover how to harness pressure as a catalyst for growth and achievement, turning challenging situations into opportunities for success.

Syncing Work and Personal Calendars

Discover practical solutions for maintaining a balanced schedule by effectively syncing your work and personal calendars.

How a Sense of Humor Helps Us Deal with Criticism

Learn why maintaining a sense of humor is crucial for processing criticism constructively and using it as a tool for personal growth.

Ten Biographies Worth Reading

Explore a curated selection of biographies that provide powerful lessons in leadership, resilience, and success through the lives of remarkable individuals.

Push Mind Past Body Reality

Discover how to train your mind to overcome physical barriers and unlock your true potential through mental conditioning.

Product Organizations and the Most Important Work

Discover how high-performing product organizations balance team autonomy with organizational alignment to consistently deliver the most impactful work.

Pushing Too Hard Too Early

Understand the risks of pushing too hard too early, and discover how to pace yourself for long-term success.

What Are You Willing to Sacrifice to Get an Edge?

Discover how strategic sacrifices can give you the edge you need to excel in your personal and professional life.

Mind Stops Before the Body Does

Discover why your mind often gives up before your body does, and how to overcome these mental barriers to achieve more.

Who You Surround Yourself With Matters

Discover the profound impact of your social connections on your personal and professional development.

Environment Aids in Skill Acquisition

Discover the importance of creating the right environment for effective learning and skill development.

Embracing the Suck

Discover how accepting and working through challenging situations can lead to significant personal and professional growth.

10 Questions To Ask Ourselves Every Week to Continue Improving

Are you looking to make self-improvements in your life? These 10 questions can help guide your reflection and introspection to better understand your values, strengths, weaknesses, and goals. From identifying what led to your biggest achievements to examining your responses to challenges, these questions can help you better understand yourself and your path towards personal growth. Take a moment to ask yourself these questions and discover what you can learn about yourself and your journey to self-improvement.

7 Tips For Getting Value Out of Networking Events

If you are an introvert like me the last thing you want to do is spend time "networking". Even if you are an extrovert your time is valuable and just mingling isn't going to cut the mustard if you want to get any kind of meaningful results. So what is the best strategy when attending an event with intention of networking?

6 Tips for Scaling A Business

Building an idea is hard. Turning it into a business is even harder. Scaling that business is another level of hard. This is a list of tips to help you get there.

Seeking Courage

I struggle with what level of disclosure to give in public forums, because vulnerability is a hard. I don't care for writing and know a path to getting better at something is to do a lot of it. At least that is the excuse I hide behind when it comes to sharing more freely. A while back during a long period of seeking self awareness it became apparent that I didn't really believe in myself very much. Other people believe in me. I believe I am able to get results, but I haven't been able to really believe in me. I was smacked in the face on this topic looking in the mirror and seeing myself over 250 pounds and utterly out of shape and control.

3 Rules for Dealing with Trolls

Dealing with trolls is an art form. Being on the internet requires you master it.

5 Principles of Life Seen Through an El Pollo Loco Birthday Lunch

El Pollo Loco customer experience that translates to life principles.

The Difference Between Influence and Manipulation

The difference between influence and manipulation can be pretty subtle. However, the outcomes they produce can massive. How are they different to you?

Asking For Help

What about asking for help is so difficult? What expectations do we put on ourselves and others that could be avoided if only we asked for help more frequently?

How Do You Define Your Bootedness

Using metaphors to describe being booted with the Core Protocols.

How to Plan Software : Six Ways to Improve Your Scrum Planning Meeting

Six ways to improve your scrum planning meeting.

Customer Service While Traveling. Fly Classy! Thanks GoGo

What does exceptional service at 10,000ft look like?

Calculating Lead Times While Waiting at the Motor Vehicle Department

How to estimate everyday things.

Productivity Wednesday #7 : Use Email to Connect with Potential Followers

Looking to build your connectivity on Linked In? Increase your followers on Twitter or Friends on Facebook? Chances are you already communicate with a lot of people via e-mail, but you haven't taken the time to connect with them elsewhere.

Agile Open Southwest Recap

Open Spaces always tend to amaze me. They really are the right people in the right place at the right time. When we kicked off Agile Open Southwest, I was a little bit nervous about what might come out. As always, I was left absolutely amazed. It was great seeing old friends and meeting new ones. Finding everyone was a different place on their journey yet still able to be find common ground and learn from one another.

Productivity Wednesday #6 : Share Digital Content on Social Media with Buffer

If you read a lot of digital content, you should share a lot. The problem is that you probably read in spurts. If you shared in spurts, you would probably annoy your friends. Buffer helps fix that problem.

Don't Make Your Retrospectives Confusing

If explaining an activity in a retrospective takes more than a minute or two it probably isn't very effective. Don't fall into the trap of making things too complex. Activities shouldn't be complicated they should be fluid. Giving participants too many options and being unclear with instructions makes it difficult to fluid with sharing thoughts.

Retrospectives. When Facilitating. Facilitate. Don't Participate.

As a ScrumMaster when you are "running" a retrospective it is easy to fall into the trap of actively participating in it. It is extremely difficult to do this well (if not impossible), because your role should be as a facilitator not a participant. The minute you start participating you are no longer neutral and severely impact your ability to effectively facilitate.

Estimates Are Evil!

A young man was bitten by a pitbull when he was 10. Ever since then every time he has noticed a pitbull it is barking, snarling and threatening to him. He is now 35. He believes that pitbull's are a vicious breed and that they should not be family pets.

Should Senior Developers Pair Program?

I am a proponent of pairing (not just for programming). Anytime I introduce it to a new team I get a number of objections. The most prominent is that pairing slows me down (because I am so awesome and everyone else sucks so bad).

Productivity Wednesday #5 : Boomerang for GMail

Sometimes when Getting Things Done, you need a little more power in your inbox than the default. Boomerang for GMail is the extra horsepower you need.

What Makes Gangplank Magical?

Gangplank is a community of creators that fuses family life, civic life, creating and earning a living into this unique blend where anything is possible. The support and tenderness offered is counter balanced by a gruff and forceful exterior making participation daunting to most.

Transform a Relationship, Be Fully Present

People need to be understood that they matter. We are wired to belong. It doesn't matter if it is your spouse, child, employee or coworker every relationship you wish to maintain requires your attention. Most people consider attention to be measured in time. Time is in short supply and high demand in our connected and fast paced world.

Observations, What Is In a Name?

Names are funny. Tone and inflection can make all the difference. Most people don't even bother correcting people when their name is said incorrectly. Close enough is good enough. However, sometimes people get their name so wrong they don't even go by their own name.

When It Comes to Community Building, It is the Small Things

Changing a community is slow work. Paying attention to the details and working with discipline over time with patience is required to get real results.

Hierarchy of Reading

Abraham Maslow made the concept of hierarchies of progression in systems popular via his work on a hierarchy of needs. Here is a theory about the hierarchy of different types of readers.

15 Things You Should Teach Your Kids To Prepare Them For the Future

Be the best parent you can. Prepare your children for the future.

Restore the Balance of Humanity. Create.

Consumption is rampant. What does is it mean to create?

Call to Volunteer at Arizona State Parks

I love Arizona. It's natural resources are one of it's greatest assets. I have been encouraging people to get out and ExploreAZ. If you didn't know our State Parks have become seriously under funded and need our help. So how can you help?

Target Sucks – Expect Less, Pay More… (and other lies)

Top 10 Ways To Become More Resilient

Resilience refers to the ability of a person to effectively cope with and recover from adversity or stress. This concept has been studied in psychology and neuroscience, and various strategies and techniques have been developed to build resilience, such as mindfulness, cognitive reframing, and social support. Building resilience can help individuals better handle life's greatest challenges and maintain their mental and emotional well-being. Here are ten ways to increase your resiliency.

Essence of Humanity is Helping Other People Feel Safe

In Andre Agassi's Open he shows the authentic and human side of himself. He talks about giving a friend named Frankie the money he needs to put his children through school. He reflects on it in the following way:

Reminding Yourself Where You Are Going

I generally keep voice memos or written journals around as outlets for my thoughts when I am not regularly able to connect with people to share what is on my mind. I try to purge them into a digital format fairly quickly to prevent clutter. I don't recall why I recorded this segment, but I ran across it today and it made me smile.

Explore AZ : August 19th – 21st : Payson, AZ

So back in 2009 I talked about starting ExploreAZ tweetups. I did get the RV out one time in 2010 shortly after that post to Catalina State Park outside of Tucson. After putting some money into the RV and getting it operational again considering starting this back up. So I have booked two trips.

Rituals Help Us Form Emotional Connections

Whatever our exact ritual, the social act of eating together is important; it reunites us with our tribe. Transforming us from solitary beings to members of a group.

The Effects of Shifting or Resetting on Society

If you are listening. A lot of people are talking about a "new norm", a "reset" or a "shift". Largely this discussion is around economics and growing concerns of debt. In reality it is about a lot more than that.

Sometimes Team Perspective Is Needed

The benefit about working on a high performing team is that everyone expects excellence. There is always a drive that it could be better. Nail a perfect 10 and then ask how it could be an 11.

Four Principles of Collaborative Consumption

The basis of the 'Sharing Economy' operates on principles. How are you seeing them applied in the world around you? What can you learn from them? How are you applying them?

Great Service Requires Constant Attention

I am a fan of great service. When I see it exemplified I try to share it. For example, QuikTrip does a great job #winning. Another company that has always impressed me is Discount Tire. They always greet me right away. They fix my tires for free when repairable. They give me a free air check when my tires are low. All of this even on tires not purchased from them. WOW! They never give me problems when I need tires rotated or tires replaced under warranty that I did purchase from them.

You Can't Handle the Truth

A woman and her son were entering the Subway as my daughter and I were getting out of the car. My daughter uttered, "Hoochie Mama" under her breath. I chastised her for being inappropriate. Her response to me was, "Well she is." Granted the woman was probably in her late forties, had on 5 inch heels, booty shorts and next to nothing for a top with her adolescent son in tote. Sadly, my daughter was right.

Opening Lines From Great Minds

It is no secret, I love books. One of my favorite things to read is autobiographies. I enjoy them because I love to hear the authors reflect back on how they got started. A glimpse of what made them who they became.